Veni Vidi Vici

Someone asked me,
"Why do you keep loving someone who doesn't love you back?
There are tons of fish in the water."
I simply replied, "Just because it's also water, would you drink from the sea?"
 

習慣，就是時間累積而來的一種動作。
早上，我總是走進7-eleven。
走了走，東選西選，還是選回了每天吃的三明治。
進到辦公室坐下後，總是開了機收信，然後放歌，
看了看，上選下選，還是聽起了那首最愛聽的。
開始寫程式前，總是洗了洗杯子走近飲水機，
看著瓶瓶罐罐，最後還是拿了一包就走。

人生總有很多的選擇。
每天要面對的選擇，很多。
吃什麼，做什麼，玩什麼，看什麼....
雖然你每天都在做選擇。
不過，總是...總是...
會選回你每次選的那個。
因為習慣。
習慣，是時間累積而來的一種動作。

情人間常說：「我對你不再有愛，都變成了習慣了。」
其實，習慣並沒有什麼不好。
它讓你自然的去做。
自然的去想他，自然的去愛他。

當你已經不覺得自己在付出時，
也許你覺得，你己開始習慣，有他陪伴在你的生命中，
那才是真的愛。
有什麼不好？

我一直認為
很多事情開始要一個人獨自去做時
就失去它的意義：

當
習慣了兩個人一起吃飯
習慣了兩個人一起看書
習慣了兩個人一起工作
習慣了兩個人一起散步
習慣了兩個人一起回家
習慣了兩個人一起聊天
習慣了兩個人一起商量事情
習慣了兩個人一起發呆
習慣了兩個人一起喝咖啡
習慣了兩個人一起..........

開始一個人
很多快樂都不再了...

請珍惜你身邊所有
把握任何一個美麗的機會
失去了就不再了...

現在請你回想一下
你習慣的那個人，是不是讓你感覺很熟悉，就像家人一樣？
這種感覺，不是那麼容易就可以擁有的，應該好好的珍惜。
也許有天你失去了，才會明白這個人，在你的心理是佔了很大的位置。
好緣份是很神奇的東西，它只送給用心去經營的人。
最近你是否不再那麼用心，去關心或態度冷淡了嗎???
趕快去抓住你那個熟悉的人吧，必竟你們曾經走過那一段，不是嗎？

Sharing it with you all!

Some feelings sink so deep into the heart that only loneliness can help you find them again.
Some truths are so painful that only shame can help you live with them.
Some things are so sad that only your soul can do the crying for them.

If life were easy and understandable, here is how the perfect relationship would go:
1)You are on your own and feeling OK with yourself, but not really seeing anyone.
2)You meet someone you would like to get to know better.
3)The two of you decide to go out together.
4)You both have a really good time on your first date. You can't believe how much you have in common.
5)You go out again, and again it is great.
6)After going out together several times you both realize you have found someone special.
7)You fall in love and continue dating steadily.
8)You decide to get engaged.
9)You plan the wedding together and await the day.
10)You get married.
11)You live happily ever after.

But life is rarely easy or understandable. So things never seem to work out according to this list.

Trust
Relationships cannot grow or have a chance of becoming happy if there's no trust. Trust is something that grows when people see that they will not be let down or hurt by another. As i always like to say "With Trust, come Freedom".

Greener Grass Syndrome
The grass is always greener on the other side? No matter who you go out with, someone prettier/handsomer/smarter/stronger/more caring/etc. is going to come along. Your job in life, in conjunction with your partner, is to learn to deal with these normal human flaws that make all of us unique.

Out of Love
There are situations where you can look at your boyfriend or girlfriend, you can "feel" that "something" is seriously amiss and you can say to him or her, "Is something wrong? If something is wrong please tell me and I will fix it." And the person will look you right in the eye and say, "Nothing is wrong. I'm fine." And then a week later he or she dumps you and you find out there has been "someone else" for a month. Most people experience something like this at least once in their lives, and it is bewildering.

Why does that kind of stuff happen? It happens because relationships are random. There is no explaining why someone falls in love with you in the first place, and there is no explaining why someone falls out of love with you, either. It just happens. When it happens, the only thing you can do is accept it, be thankful for the good times and walk away. That can be incredibly hard to do, especially the first few times you get dumped; but it is the only thing you can do.

Rejecting a Crush
Always be honest. Never lie to someone who is crushing on you or lead them on. Don’t lie just to “spare his feelings,” because if he finds out, he will be more hurt that you lied. Respect his feelings and respect him as a person.


A Relationship is similar to an investment. Money, Time, Effort and Youth. Of course like any other investment, there are risks involved.